Saturday 28 December 2013

Mercy Johnson Okojie says Thank You

Mercy Johnson Okojie says Thank You

A message from Mercy Johnson-Okojie
2013 has been an incredible year for me. I couldn’t ask for more. It is one year I won’t forget in a hurry.

My fans were amazing. They stood by me and took on my fight. The critics played their parts too. I took the constructive ones, made adjustment and became a better person.

How can I forget 2013, the year I had the honour of being the most searched Nollywood actress for the third consecutive year. I am most grateful to the fans who worked the keyboard or keypad reading about me online.

I am grateful to my team, the media and management company, Bigsam Media that became like sponge, wiping away the negative past and soaking in the future. I am most grateful.

Social media, Twitter most especially, played significant role in reaching out directly. The teaming fans on Twitter and other platforms, this is for you; thank you for loving, tolerating and being there for me.

Gentlemen of the press contributed in no small measure to my year, without you, no one will reckon with the brand, thank you.

My colleagues, directors, producers and marketers who made the job easier for me, I am most grateful. Without what you do on set, my best won’t manifest. Thanks.
 
To the companies all over Africa that did business with me, I owe you. Thanks for the confidence in my brand. 2014 will be better.

To those who buy or watch movies because of me, you have kept me at the top still in 2013. You are part of my success story. I am most grateful. God bless you.

And to the most wonderful man in the world, Prince Odi Okojie, if there were to be reincarnation, I will take the step of faith with you again. Odi, you are a good man, wonderful husband and loving daddy. I am blessed to be your wife and blessed will you continue to be among men.

In 2014, there will be new direction for the brand, keep your fingers crossed while God and my team work out the magic.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Mercy Johnson Okojie.

Obasanjo is selfish, a fraud and evil, Eedris Abdulkareem Tweets

Obasanjo is selfish, a fraud and evil, Eedris Abdulkareem Tweets


These two, OBJ and Eedris, have a history. See more Tweets after the cut...

Headies 2013: Between nominee Orezi and winner Waje

Headies 2013: Between nominee Orezi and winner Waje

Rihanna crooner Orezi isn't happy that he lost out to Waje in the Best Reggae/Dancehall category at the Headies yesterday. He took to twitter a few hours ago to express his displeasure (his tweet above). Waje responded by tweeting what you see below..(she's since deleted it).
@Wajemusik: So a fellow nominee subs me, hahahhaha Pity

I love 'I Wish'. I think it's a beautiful song and deserved to win. See more Tweets after the cut.


Headies 2013: Photos + Full list of winners

Headies 2013: Photos + Full list of winners

Nigeria’s most premium awards show, The Headies, held last night, Thursday, December 26, 2013 at the Oriental Hotel in Victoria Island, Lagos. Hosted by the suave hip-hop artiste, Dr Sid & delectable songstress, Tiwa Savage, this year’s nomination had the tightest competition with a selection of some of the hottest names in the Nigerian music scene.

Olamide emerged the biggest winner of the night with three awards. Fast rising Afro pop artiste, Sean Tizzle also won the Next rated awards and a Hyundai Tucson SUV. Davido also bagged the Hip Hop World Revelation of the year award and Best R&B/Pop Album.

The Hall of Fame award went to legendary Fuji musician, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal who later closed the show with a five-star performance. See photos and full list of winners after the cut...




Full List of Winner
Best R&B Single
Good Good Loving – Banky W
Best Rap Single
Man of the Year – Phyno
Best Street-Hop Artiste
Durosoke – Olamide
Best Recording Of The Year
This Year - Jaywon
Best Collabo
Ghost Mode – Phyno FT Olamide
Best Rap Album
YBNL – Olamide
Hip Hop World Revelation
Omo Baba Olowo – Davido
Lyricist On The Roll
Let It Go - Mode 9
Producer Of The Year
Sho Lee – Dee Tunes
Best Alternative Song
Repete - BlackMagic
Best Pop Single
Ihe Ne Me – 2Face
Best Vocal Performance Female
Only You – Nikki Laoye
Best Vocal Performance Male
Rich And Famous – Praiz
Next Rated
Sean Tizzle
Best Reggae/DanceHall Single
I Wish – Waje
Song Of The Year
Limpopo – KCee
Album Of The Year
YBNL - Olamide
Artiste Of The Year
Iyanya
Best Music Video
Alingo – Jude Okoye & Clarence Peters
Best R&B/Pop Album
O.B.O – Davido  
Hall Of Fame
Wasiu Ayinde The 1st
Most Downloaded Callertune
Mandela - Harrysong

What do you think of this year's winners? And if you watched the show live on TV last night, what did you think of it?

Waje debuts new haircut, slimmer body at the Headies 2013

Waje debuts new haircut, slimmer body at the Headies 2013

The 'I wish' star was spotted at the Headies sporting no less than a short hair do and a trimmer, hotter bod'. Waje is also the highest female nominee at the Headies with four nominations. Wish her luck tonight!

Porn Doesn't Have to Make You Sexist, But It Totally Could

Porn Doesn't Have to Make You Sexist, But It Totally Could


Pornography has always been a touchy subject. When the first erotic novel, which followed the life of a London prostitute, was published in 1748, it was widely banned and persecuted. In the 1970s, when porn was just emerging as a film genre and was mostly financed by Mafia families, state and federal prosecutors quickly shut down the movies. Today, though porn is a lot less taboo and more accessible than ever, we’re still faced with scrutiny of sexual material, particularly when it comes to portrayals of women.
Although the research isn’t conclusive, there’s evidence that watching certain types of porn may be harmful to spectators and can change the way we think about gender equality, our intimate relationships, and even how we perform in the bedroom.

What’s the Deal?

With the advent of the Internet, the days of leafing through magazines or renting X-rated flicks have nearly gone extinct. Now, 90 percent of pornography consumption happens on the web and more than 26 million sites are dedicated to online nooky.
Given porn’s widespread accessibility, it’s no surprise that many people have taken a peek at least once. A study of 813 university students found that 87 percent of men and 31 percent of women reported using pornography, while a Canadian researcher who attempted to locate male “porn virgins” couldn’t find a single guy that hasn’t watched it. And people aren’t just peering at porn in the comfort of their homes — viewers also include on-duty government workers such as U.S. SEC commissioners and British Parliament members, who were guilty of 300,000 attempts to view explicit videos while the U.K. legislature was in session. Watching online pornography is also the leading cause of corporate Malware among top executives. It’s pretty clear that most humans have dabbled in the world of X-rated videos — and have the browser history to prove it.
Odds are good that all of these porn viewers are being exposed to potentially problematic depictions of women. One study, which analyzed 304 scenes in popular porn movies, found that 88.2 percent contained physical aggression, 48.7 percent contained verbal aggression, and 94.4 percent of aggressive acts were directed toward women [1]. Less than 10 percent of the scenes contained positive behaviors such as laughing, embracing, kissing, or verbal compliments [1].
Now, aggressive sex isn’t necessarily a bad thing (providing both partners have happily given consent, of course). But when virtually all the mainstream pornographic depictions of sex involve aggression toward women, it’s time to question what all this porn watching is doing to our attitudes about women, sex, and relationships in general. 

Why It Matters

Even before it was an Internet sensation, sociologists, psychologists, and feminists were studying the effects of porn on behavior, attitudes, and relationships. Though they generally agreed that an occasional peek wasn’t that bad — in fact, looking at nudie pics may help reduce stress — researchers were concerned that more avid viewership (as well as watching violent and sadomasochistic porn) could provoke serious consequences such as sexist attitudes, aggression and violence against women, and even increased acceptance of harassment and rape (although this last finding remains a subject of debate) [3] [4].
Current studies suggest the subject is more complex than researchers may have previously thought; there are a lot of factors at play when we watch porn. Several studies have found that pornography may indeed reinforce sexist attitudes, but predominantly in individuals who already hold strong sexist beliefs, score high for risks of aggression, and are low in agreeableness [5]. So, it’s unlikely that watching a couple minutes of a sexy romp will make anyone suddenly aggressive or misogynist. What matters more is whether that person was already predisposed to act and feel in those ways. Perhaps surprisingly, sexist attitudes among porn viewers aren’t confined to the male domain: A longitudinal study found that when men and women were exposed to sexually explicit media as adolescents, both groups had less progressive views of gender roles [6]. Another study of porn-viewing individuals found that both men and women were less likely to support women’s rights.
Because violence goes hand-in-hand with intimacy in many X-rated videos, some experts worry that porn can teach viewers that aggression is pleasurable to everyone — potentially motivating people to model that behavior during sex. Research has also found that pairing aggression with arousal can produce misogynistic attitudes, and may foster the belief that sexual satisfaction can always be achieved without affection and emotional attachment. This isn’t to say that people who watch aggressive porn are guaranteed to become violent sexual partners, but what these studies do suggest is that watching porn can change how we view pleasure in intimate relationships.
In response to these findings, an alternative porn movement is slowly building. One study found that Norwegian X-rated media depicts women in more empowering positions than American or Japanese porn, showing that porn does have the potential to portray women as equals. The feminist pornography movement has emerged as video producers and activists seek to portray women in more power-equal positions, show couples in more loving, intimate relationships, and provide safe and healthy working environments for sex workers of all genders. There are even plans to roll out a 24/7 porn channel for women in the U.S. next year (it’s currently available in the Netherlands). Meanwhile, countries such as England and Australia have outright banned violent pornography.

The Takeaway

Porn’s effects on its viewers are complicated, and it’s difficult to make sweeping statements because everyone’s cultures, beliefs, personalities, and porn preferences are different. And since most research focuses strictly on heterosexual porn, the LGBTQ community and LGBTQ-friendly porn are woefully unstudied.
That said, current studies generally agree that the sole act of watching porn won’t make anyone suddenly aggressive or hostile toward women (although certain individuals are at risk if they are already aggressive or hold sexist beliefs). But research does suggest porn may make us think differently about intimate relationships and influence people’s perceptions of what is acceptable and “normal” during sex.
The takeaway? There’s no need to scale down your porn habits (unless they’re interfering with normal daily life), but research suggests it’s a good idea to steer clear of the violent stuff and instead explore less aggressive, more relationship-friendly X-rated media. Thankfully, there’s more sex-positive porn out there today than ever before.
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PDP In Intensive Care Unit… Matter Of Time Before It Dies – Rep. Bello-Osagie

PDP In Intensive Care Unit… Matter Of Time Before It Dies – Rep. Bello-Osagie

PDP-National-Chairman-Alhaji-Bamanga-TukurA member of the House of Representatives representing Oredo Federal Constituency, Edo State, Mr Rasaq Bello-Osagie, yesterday, said the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) is currently on “intensive care” and stands no chance of winning as the party is fighting a lost battle with Nigerians.
Mr. Bello-Osagie, a federal lawmaker elected on the platform of defunct Action Congress of Nigeria, ACN, now All Progressive Congress (APC), made this declaration at a 3-day event at his constituency office, where he reeled out his achievements to members of his constituency.
According to him, “from what we are seeing now, the PDP as a party in my opinion is still existing through an oxygen.

Oil Subsidy Fraud: Court Dismisses Abdullahi Alao’s Applications

Oil Subsidy Fraud: Court Dismisses Abdullahi Alao’s Applications

ABDULLAHI ALAO IN COURT
ABDULLAHI ALAO IN COURT
A Lagos High Court, Ikeja, on Friday dismissed three applications filed by an oil marketer, Abdullahi Alao, who is being prosecuted for an alleged N1.1 billion fuel subsidy fraud.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the trial judge, Justice Lateefat Okunnu, dismissed the applications for “being an abuse of court processes.”
One of the dismissed applications had prayed the court to set aside its October 21 ruling which dismissed Alao’s previous application to quash the charges.
The other application had urged the court to stay further proceedings on the trial, pending the determination of Alao’s appeal against the ruling at the Court of Appeal, Lagos.
The third application had sought for a referral of the matter to the Court of Appeal, for a case slated for hearing.
In her ruling, Okunnu struck out the applications on the grounds that the prayers being sought for had been previously determined by the Supreme Court in other matters.
She said Section 277 of the Administration of Criminal Justice Law of Lagos State subject states that “an appeal for stay of proceedings shall not be entertained until judgment is delivered in a criminal matter.
“It is a roundabout attempt to stall proceedings and an abuse of the process of the court,” the judge held.
Okunnu, therefore, adjourned the matter till February 27, 2014 for continuation of trial. (NAN)